In the days since Dolly Parton’s death, stories have poured in about her music, her marriage, her childhood in the Tennessee mountains and the millions of lives touched by her generosity.
But now her younger sister, Stella Parton, has revealed something Dolly reportedly told her privately during her cancer battle.
It wasn’t about her career.
It wasn’t about money.
And it wasn’t even about saving herself.
According to Stella, Dolly said that if doctors reached a point where there was no hope for her, she was willing to let her medical team try experimental drugs anyway — in the hope that what they learned might someday help someone else. (people.com, abcnews.com)
Dolly was 80 when she died on Tuesday, August 25, following what her representatives described as a brief battle with cancer. The specific type of cancer has not been publicly disclosed. (cbsnews.com)
And Stella’s revelation is offering fans an extraordinary glimpse into what her sister was thinking about near the end.
Her sister revealed a conversation few people knew about
Stella, now 77, broke her silence in an emotional tribute on August 27, just two days after Dolly’s death.
She described her big sister as one of the most generous and thoughtful people she had ever known.
Then she revealed the conversation that is now touching fans around the world.
Dolly had recently told Stella that if her own situation became hopeless, she would still be willing to allow doctors to experiment with treatments in hopes of helping patients in the future. (people.com)
It is an important distinction: Stella did not say doctors had given up on Dolly, nor did she establish that experimental drugs were ultimately administered.
She said Dolly had told her she was willing to let doctors try them if there was no hope for her.
That alone says something remarkable about how Dolly apparently viewed her final battle.
Even when discussing the possibility that medicine could no longer save her, she was thinking about what doctors might learn for somebody else.
It wasn’t the first time Dolly put medical research ahead of herself
For longtime fans, Stella’s revelation fits a pattern that stretches back decades.
In 2020, when researchers were racing to understand COVID-19, Dolly donated $1 million to Vanderbilt University Medical Center.
The donation created the Dolly Parton COVID-19 Research Fund and supported early research connected to the Moderna vaccine. Scientific papers later acknowledged support from the fund. (nature.com)
Dolly didn’t stop with writing a check.
When vaccines became available, she publicly received one at Vanderbilt and encouraged others to be vaccinated.
Her relationship with medical philanthropy continued.
She donated another $1 million toward pediatric infectious-disease research at Vanderbilt, helped raise money for LeConte Medical Center in Tennessee and supported children’s healthcare. Earlier this year, East Tennessee Children’s Hospital announced that its children’s hospital would bear her name following what it described as a major gift. (nature.com)
So when Stella revealed what Dolly had said about experimental treatment, it didn’t sound like a sudden change of heart.
It sounded remarkably consistent with the way she had lived.
Behind the superstar were two sisters drinking coffee before sunrise
Perhaps the most moving part of Stella’s tribute had nothing to do with hospitals at all.
To the world, Dolly Parton was a superstar.
To Stella, she was still the sister on the other end of the telephone.
For years, the two shared a tiny weekly ritual.
Every Tuesday morning, before sunrise, Dolly and Stella would have coffee together over the phone.
They would gossip.
They would make plans.
They would simply talk like sisters.
Both had remained early risers after growing up as farm girls in rural Tennessee. (abcnews.com)
And there is a heartbreaking coincidence in that tradition.
Dolly died on a Tuesday.
Stella began her tribute by writing that her big sister had “got her wings” that Tuesday.
Now, she said, those Tuesday morning coffees will never be the same. (eonline.com)
Long before the rhinestones, they were two little girls from Tennessee
Dolly’s generosity becomes even more remarkable when remembering where her story began.
She was born in 1946 and grew up in rural East Tennessee, the fourth of 12 children.
Money was scarce.
The Parton children grew up crowded together in a tiny mountain home, far removed from the glamorous world Dolly would eventually inhabit.
Dolly began singing as a child, performed on local radio and television and eventually left for Nashville immediately after graduating from high school.
The rest became country-music history.
But fame never completely separated Dolly from the world she came from.
Stella’s memories of those predawn coffee conversations make that especially clear.
Decades after Dolly became one of the most recognizable entertainers on Earth, the sisters still thought of themselves as those early-rising farm girls.
Dolly built an empire — and then spent decades giving pieces of it away
There was another side to Dolly’s generosity that had nothing to do with medicine.
In 1995, she created the Imagination Library, initially to provide books to children in her home county.
The idea was wonderfully simple: children would receive free books in the mail.
The program eventually expanded far beyond Tennessee and then beyond the United States.
By the time of Dolly’s death, the program had distributed more than 300 million books to children around the world. (cbsnews.com)
Dolly often connected that mission to her father, Robert Lee Parton, who could not read or write.
For a woman known for songs, costumes, movies and Dollywood, literacy quietly became one of the defining projects of her life.
And there were other causes.
Disaster relief.
Hospitals.
Medical research.
Education.
Families affected by wildfires.
Children who might otherwise grow up without books in their homes.
Dolly accumulated enormous wealth during six decades in entertainment — but repeatedly redirected part of it toward people she would never meet.
Then her own health became more complicated
Over the past year, fans had noticed signs that Dolly was dealing with health problems.
She postponed appearances and performances while receiving medical care.
Last year, her sister Freida publicly asked fans to pray for her, causing widespread concern before Dolly reassured fans that she was doing all right.
Earlier this year, Dolly said she was responding well to treatment for health problems that included kidney stones, although she was not yet ready to return fully to performing. (cbsnews.com)
What the public did not know at the time was the full extent of what was happening privately.
Following her death, her representatives confirmed that Dolly had experienced a brief battle with cancer. (nature.com)
Her family has kept the precise diagnosis private.
And that makes Stella’s new revelation particularly significant.
It gives us one of the first glimpses into the conversations Dolly was apparently having as she confronted the possibility that she might not recover.
She was still asking how she could help
There is something striking about Dolly’s proposed arrangement with her doctors.
Experimental treatments are normally discussed in terms of what they might do for the patient receiving them.
Could this treatment work?
Could it extend someone’s life?
Could it offer hope after conventional options fail?
But according to Stella’s recollection, Dolly was contemplating something else.
What if it couldn’t save her — but doctors could learn from it?
That possibility was apparently enough.
Stella said her sister was thinking of other people “to the very end.” (cbsnews.com)
It echoes something scientists have been saying since Dolly’s death.
Researchers interviewed by Nature remembered her not merely as an entertainer who donated money, but as an unusually visible advocate for science and public health.
Her COVID research donation alone helped support work that became part of one of the largest medical efforts of the modern era. (nature.com)
Stella now has one request for the people who loved Dolly
Stella could have ended her tribute by asking people simply to remember her sister.
Instead, she asked them to imitate her.
Show more kindness.
Lift somebody else up.
Give more of your time and resources.
That, Stella suggested, would be a better way of honoring Dolly than simply mourning her. (abcnews.com)
It’s an unusually fitting message for a woman whose public persona could easily have been defined by the rhinestones, enormous blonde hair and unmistakable Tennessee accent.
Dolly spent decades making herself impossible to overlook.
Yet some of the things for which she may ultimately be remembered happened far away from the stage.
A million dollars quietly handed to researchers.
Books mailed to children she’d never meet.
Money given to communities after disaster.
And, according to her sister, a conversation near the end of her life in which Dolly contemplated allowing doctors to keep trying — even if the person who might ultimately benefit wasn’t Dolly Parton at all.
For Stella, however, the loss is much simpler.
Next Tuesday, before sunrise, there will be no familiar voice waiting on the other end of the phone.
The world lost Dolly Parton, the superstar.
Stella lost the sister she used to drink coffee with before the rest of the world woke up. (abcnews.com)
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