Physical Therapists Say Stop: 5 Ways People Over 65 Carry Grocery Bags (No. 4 Is the One Almost Everyone Does)

Sarah Jenkins

You’re over 65 and still carrying your own groceries. Good for you.

That trip from the supermarket to your kitchen counter is real, everyday strength. It’s worth keeping for a long time.

Physical therapists notice the same five habits again and again, from the trunk to the kitchen counter. Most of us never think twice about them.

Below, you’ll find each habit and the better way to bring it all in. There’s also a bonus section of simple setups that make the whole trip easier.

Number 4 surprises most readers. It happens before you even close the car door.

1. Loading Every Bag Onto One Arm

You know the move. You hook four bags over one forearm so the other hand is free for your keys.

It feels efficient. But your whole body leans away from that heavy side to keep you upright.

Your shoulder, your lower back and even your hip on the other side work overtime. That uneven pull can leave you sore by evening.

Physical therapists suggest splitting the load. Put roughly the same weight in each hand, like carrying two buckets of water.

When the weight is balanced, you stand taller and walk more naturally. Your arms hang close to your sides instead of out like wings.

If one bag holds the milk jug, pair it with the bag of canned soup. A little sorting at the checkout makes the walk home feel lighter.

2. Twisting at the Waist Instead of Turning Your Feet

Here’s the scene. You grab a bag from the trunk and swing it toward the house in one quick motion.

Your feet stay planted. Your waist does all the turning, with a full bag hanging at arm’s length.

Physical therapists see this one constantly. Twisting while holding weight puts a lot of strain on the lower back.

The better way is simple. Lift the bag first, holding it close to your body.

Then turn your whole self by taking small steps with your feet. Think of your nose, chest and toes all pointing the same way.

It feels slower for a day or two. Then it becomes a habit, the way you learned to check your mirrors when backing out of the driveway.

3. Trying to Bring Everything In One Trip

We’ve all done it. Bags on every finger, the paper towels under one arm, the keys between your teeth.

It’s almost a point of pride. One trip, done, no going back out to the car.

But that heavy load is harder to balance. It also blocks your view of the ground, the doorstep and the dog waiting at the door.

This is why two lighter trips is the PT favorite. Each trip is easier on your shoulders and your back.

You also keep one hand free more often. That matters for doors, railings and a steady step.

There’s a nice bonus. The extra walk back to the car adds a few more steps to your day without any effort at all.

Some people enjoy turning it into a little ritual. Cold things first, then the pantry items, then the bread and eggs on top.

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4. Leaning Deep Into the Trunk With Straight Knees and a Rounded Back

This is the one almost everyone does. And it happens before you even close the car door.

The bags slid to the back of the trunk on the drive home. Maybe the case of water rolled all the way against the seat.

So you lean in. Your knees stay straight, your back curves forward like a question mark, and your arms reach as far as they can go.

Then you lift a heavy bag from the farthest point, with your body bent over the bumper.

Why physical therapists wince at this one

Picture holding a gallon of milk close to your chest. Now picture holding it straight out at arm’s length.

The milk weighs the same. But it feels much heavier far away from your body.

That is exactly what happens in the trunk. The farther the bag is from you, the harder your lower back has to work to lift it.

Add a rounded back and locked knees, and your back muscles are doing nearly all the job alone. Your strong leg muscles barely get to help.

Physical therapists say this is the position they’d most like people to drop. It looks so ordinary that nobody notices it.

The better way, step by step

First, bring the bag to you before you lift it. Pull it toward the edge of the trunk by its handles.

A grabber tool, the kind you might use for a high kitchen shelf, can help with bags that drifted far back.

Second, get close. Stand right up against the bumper, feet about hip-width apart.

Third, bend your knees a little. Think of sitting back slightly into an invisible chair.

Fourth, keep your back long. Physical therapists often say, “Hinge at the hips, don’t curl the spine.”

Fifth, hold the bag close to your belly as you stand up. Use your legs to rise, not your back.

Make the trunk work for you

The easiest fix happens at the store. Ask the bagger, or place the bags yourself, near the back bumper.

Heavier items go closest to the opening. Lighter bags can go a little deeper.

Some people keep a small box or a low basket near the trunk’s edge. The bags ride home in it and stay within easy reach.

If your car has a high trunk floor or a tall SUV hatch, it may suit you better than a deep sedan trunk. Many people notice the difference when they shop for their next car.

A little practice goes a long way

Try the motion with an empty bag in the driveway one sunny morning. It sounds silly, but it helps your body learn the pattern.

After a week or two, you’ll catch yourself reaching for the bag the right way without thinking.

Your grandchildren may even start copying you. That’s a lesson worth passing down.

5. Climbing Steps With Both Hands Full

You’ve made it to the porch, or the two steps up from the garage. Your hands are full, and the railing is right there.

But you can’t use it. Both hands are wrapped around bags.

Physical therapists see this as one of the riskiest moments of the whole trip. Steps ask for your best balance, and full hands take away your backup.

The better way is to keep one hand free on the stairs. Carry fewer bags, or carry them one side at a time.

Another trick is to set the bags on the top step first. Then walk up with your hand on the railing and collect them at the top.

A small bench or shelf by the steps works beautifully. You set the bags down, climb with both hands available, and pick them up again.

Good lighting helps too. A motion-sensor light by the garage door means you never climb in the dark with your arms full.

6. Bonus: Simple Setups That Make the Trip Easier

A few small changes around your car and home can make every grocery day smoother. None of them are complicated.

A trunk organizer

A trunk organizer is a sturdy, divided box that sits in your trunk. It keeps bags upright and stops them from sliding to the back.

Place it close to the bumper. That way, every bag stays within easy reach.

When you shop for one, read the label for features like a non-slip bottom and handles on the sides. A collapsible design folds flat when you need the space.

A folding cart

A folding cart lets wheels do the carrying. You load the bags at the car and roll them to the door.

Look for one with large wheels, which roll more easily over driveways and thresholds. A handle at a comfortable height lets you push without hunching.

Some carts are made to climb a step or two. Check the label for that feature if you have a porch.

A counter-height drop spot by the door

This might be the smartest idea of all. Set up a small table or shelf right inside the door, at about counter height.

You walk in and set the bags down without bending. No more crouching to the floor and lifting them all back up.

Then you can put things away at your own pace. Cold items first, the rest after a cup of coffee.

When to Talk to Your Doctor

Carrying groceries should feel like ordinary work, not something that hurts. Pay attention to how your body responds.

Talk to your doctor if you have back pain that lingers for more than a few days. The same goes for pain that wakes you at night.

Tell them about any numbness, tingling or weakness in your legs or arms. These are worth a conversation.

Mention it if you feel dizzy or unsteady on stairs, or if you’ve had a fall or a near fall.

Your doctor can also tell you whether working with a physical therapist makes sense for you. Many people find a few sessions very helpful for lifting and balance.

If you take medicines, keep taking them as prescribed. Bring up any questions about them at your next visit.

Bringing It All Home

Carrying your own groceries is something to be proud of. It keeps you moving, independent and part of everyday life.

With a few small changes, like balanced bags, turning your feet and bending your knees at the trunk, that trip can feel easier for years to come. Start with No. 4 the next time you open the trunk.

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